Love Me, Love Me Not

Love Me, Love Me Not Review: Two Girls and Two Boys, and the Question of What It Means to Love Openly

by Io Sakisaka

★★★★CompletedT (Teen)
Reviewed by Yu

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Quick Take

  • Io Sakisaka (Ao Haru Ride, Strobe Edge) returns with a four-person romance where the contrast between emotional openness and emotional restraint is the theme
  • Warm, character-driven, and carefully structured; the friendship between Yuna and Akari is as important as the romance
  • 12 volumes, complete

Who Is This Manga For?

  • Fans of Io Sakisaka's earlier work who want her at her most deliberately structured
  • Readers who want shojo romance where the female friendship is central
  • Anyone who appreciates romance manga that examines how people love rather than just who
  • Readers who want a complete, warm series with a satisfying ending

Content Warnings & Age Rating

Age Rating: T (Teen) Content Warnings: Mild romantic content

Fully comfortable for all readers.

Yu's Rating

Category Score
Story Depth ★★★★☆
Art Style ★★★★★
Character Development ★★★★★
Accessibility for Non-Japanese Readers ★★★★★
Reread Value ★★★★☆

Story Overview

Yuna and Akari are new neighbors and new classmates. Yuna is quiet, careful with her feelings, someone who has never said what she wants. Akari says everything she feels immediately and is sometimes embarrassed by how openly she expresses herself.

Rio Yamamoto is Akari's stepbrother. Kazuomi Inui is Rio's best friend. The four of them begin interacting, and the two pairs of feelings that develop are shaped entirely by the difference between saying and not saying.

Sakisaka constructs the series around that difference deliberately — she is examining what it costs to withhold feelings and what it risks to express them.

Characters

Yuna Ichijou — Her restraint is not shyness but habit; she grew up in an environment that didn't reward expressing feelings, and the series is about her learning to try.

Akari Yamamoto — Her openness is not carelessness; she has been hurt by expressing herself and does it anyway because she believes it's right. Her courage is the series' moral center.

Rio Yamamoto — Complex, with history that informs his relationship with Akari; his arc is the series' most structurally careful.

Kazuomi Inui — A character whose surface and interior are significantly different; his relationship with Yuna develops slowly and honestly.

Art Style

Sakisaka's art is warm and precise — her character expressions during emotional turning points are consistently excellent, and the four characters are visually distinctive enough to be immediately identifiable across any scene. Her art style has matured significantly from Strobe Edge through this series.

Cultural Context

Love Me, Love Me Not engages with a tension in Japanese social culture between tatemae (public face, restraint) and honne (true feelings) — Yuna represents the cultural norm of emotional restraint, Akari the exception of honesty. Sakisaka asks whether one approach to love is better than the other.

What I Love About It

Akari's courage. She says what she feels knowing it might not be returned. In a genre full of protagonists who suppress feelings for hundreds of chapters, watching a character who simply says them — and examines what that costs, honestly — is genuinely refreshing. Sakisaka wrote her as the standard the series holds.

What English-Speaking Fans Say

Western readers who have followed Sakisaka's work consider Love Me, Love Me Not her most intentionally constructed series — more deliberately thematic than Strobe Edge or Ao Haru Ride while retaining their warmth. The Akari character is consistently cited as one of shojo's most appealing recent protagonists.

Memorable Scene ⚠️ Spoiler Warning

Yuna saying what she has been unable to say — the first time she does it, with full knowledge that it might not be received how she hopes — is the series' emotional completion. Sakisaka built toward it from chapter one.

Similar Manga

  • Ao Haru Ride — Same author; similar emotional intelligence
  • Strobe Edge — Same author; one of shojo's finest
  • Blue Flag — Similar four-person dynamic, LGBTQ+ themes
  • Shortcake Cake — Similar warmth and careful romance

Reading Order / Where to Start

Volume 1 — the four-person dynamic establishes in the first two chapters.

Official English Translation Status

VIZ Media published the complete 12-volume series. All volumes available.

Pros & Cons

Pros

  • 12 volumes, complete
  • The friendship between Yuna and Akari is as developed as the romance
  • Sakisaka's thematic construction is the most deliberate of her major works
  • Akari's courage is genuinely inspiring

Cons

  • The deliberate structure can feel slow in the middle volumes
  • Some readers will prefer the faster emotional escalation of Ao Haru Ride

Format Comparison

Format Notes
Individual Volumes VIZ Media; standard
Digital Available

Where to Buy

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